Couples Counselling in Melbourne at Bayside Psychotherapy

Every couple faces challenges, but sometimes those challenges can feel like too much to handle on your own.

If constant arguments, growing distance or uncertainty are leaving you feeling disconnected, couples counselling can help you rekindle your connection and find your way back to each other.

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What to expect in couples counselling

Starting couples counselling is a positive step toward understanding each other better and strengthening your relationship.

Here’s what you can expect:

• A safe space to talk: We’re here to listen to both you and your partner, without judgment. You’ll each have the chance to share openly, knowing your feelings will be respected.

• Find ways to move forward: Every relationship is unique, so our approach focuses on what’s going on with you two. It could be communication issues, trust problems or just feeling disconnected. We’ll work together to understand what’s really going on and how to move forward.

• Understand each other better: Couples counselling will help you understand each other on a deeper level. We’ll help you see how your backgrounds, experiences and personalities shape your relationship, so you can appreciate each other’s differences rather than trying to change them.

• Improve how you communicate: A big part of relationship counselling is learning how to talk and listen in a way that works for both of you. We’ll help you spot the patterns that lead to misunderstandings and find better ways to express what you need.

• Explore your options: Not sure if you want to stay together or part ways? That’s okay. We’ll help you look at both options in a supportive space, aiming for either a stronger relationship or a peaceful separation, if that’s what’s best.

How can couples counselling help?

Couples counselling is about reconnecting, not just fixing problems.

Here’s how it can help:

• Reconnect with your partner: Over time, it’s easy to lose sight of what brought you together. Relationship counselling helps you rediscover each other by addressing the issues that have created distance, whether it’s communication, intimacy or shared goals.

• Break the cycle of conflict: All couples argue but when you’re stuck in the same fights over and over, it can be circular and exhausting. We help you understand what’s really driving those conflicts and find new ways to resolve them.

• Get to know each other again: Sometimes, it feels like your partner just doesn’t understand you anymore. We’ll work on making sure both of you feel heard, respected and valued.

• Rebuild trust: If trust has been broken, it can feel like there’s no way back. But with time and the right support, counselling can help you rebuild that trust.

• Accept your differences: Couples counselling can help you understand and appreciate what makes each of you unique. Instead of trying to change each other, you’ll learn to accept and value your differences, leading to a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

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Is couples counselling right for you?

If you’re unsure whether counselling is the right step, consider this: couples counselling is a proactive way to deal with issues before they become too big to handle.

It’s not about blame or deciding who’s right or wrong—it’s about understanding, accepting your differences and finding what works best for both of you.

Ready to start?

We know starting couples counselling can feel like a big step.

Our experienced therapists in Melbourne are here to support you, whether you prefer in-clinic sessions or the convenience of online counselling.

It’s never too late to improve your relationship. Whether you want to reconnect, resolve conflicts or make a tough decision together, couples counselling can help you find clarity and strengthen your bond.

Call us at (03) 9557 9113 or book your appointment online today.

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Why does communication between couples break down?

At the start of a relationship (the “honeymoon period”), we idealise our partners. We think they are the most wonderful person in the world, who will do anything for us. The rosy hormonal glow can create such an inflated view that we downplay, or overlook, their flaws. Perspectives, habits or ideas that might normally raise red flags can seem inconsequential.

Over time, we begin to realise that those little flaws that never bothered us before are becoming more and more aggravating. Sometimes, our partner may be inconsiderate, and in fact, can seem quite selfish — not to mention boring and wrong-headed. If you don’t find a way to resolve these inevitable ruptures, they can grow to eclipse all the things that attracted you to your partner in the first place. Resentment, anger and hurt can fester away, silently eroding the goodwill in the relationship.

Eventually, conditions can deteriorate to the point that both partners are more invested in proving themselves right and their partners wrong than anything else. Each partner shuts the other out in various ways, and there is a loss of trust, love and spontaneous, playful engagement.

In other words, self-preservation becomes more important than connection. At this point, it is essential to eliminate blaming, shaming and naming. It may be difficult to work through the layers of hurt and dysfunction without outside assistance.

Frequently Asked Questions

What can I expect in a typical couples counselling session?

In a typical session, both you and your partner will have the chance to speak openly in a safe and non-judgmental environment. Our therapists help you explore communication patterns and emotional triggers, aiming to resolve feelings like anger, resentment and hurt that negatively impact your relationship. The goal is to foster a more satisfying and deeper connection with your partner.

Does Bayside Psychotherapy offer individual counselling sessions during couples therapy?

Yes, sometimes personal issues like anger management, addiction or unresolved trauma come up during the session. If that happens, we might recommend individual sessions to work on those challenges separately. However, your couple’s therapist won’t usually become your personal therapist and vice versa.

Will Bayside Psychotherapy take sides in our sessions?

Absolutely not. Our therapists are neutral and supportive of both partners equally. The focus is always on helping you both communicate openly and understand each other better, without blame, shame or criticism. If one partner finds it difficult to express themselves, our therapists will ensure that both individuals feel heard and valued.

Can I attend couples counselling sessions on my own if my partner isn’t ready?

Yes, you can start couples counselling on your own if your partner isn’t ready yet. We’ll tailor the sessions to meet your specific needs and goals. It’s important to be open with your partner about this process to support the overall goals of your therapy.

How can couples counselling help improve our relationship?

Couples counselling helps by addressing the specific issues causing tension in your relationship. Our therapists work with you to understand your communication patterns, emotional responses and behaviours, helping you develop a stronger, more supportive, loving and resilient partnership.

Can we access couple therapy online if we’re not able to visit your Melbourne clinic?

Yes, we offer online couples counselling, which provides the same level of support and effectiveness as our in-person sessions. This allows you to engage in therapy from anywhere, making it convenient and accessible.

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Note: Whilst we will do our best to assist you, we rely upon your commitment to and participation in the treatment process to optimise results. Although some of our therapists have experience with couples therapy, no guarantees of any outcomes can be made.